The Art of Inure

One of the feelings that we can't simply deny is guilt. It stucks in your head and heart endlessly. It haunts you everywhere and every time.   "I could've done better."   "I could've change things." "Why didn't I do things differently before?"   "Why am I so stupid until I let this thing happen?"  A question we should ask ourselves : No matter how big your guilt is, does it change a thing?   Feeling guilty is a normal thing. It's a good thing actually, because you realise your own mistakes and you have the thought of changing it. It gives you further motivations to better things up in your life ahead. It gives you the need to be better so you don't have to experience bad thing twice.  But what happened when guilt turns into an unnecessary psychological burden? One of the toughest form of guilt is the guilt towards yourself. You can be your own best friend or worst enemy. When you make a mistake toward...

Have you ever been through a phase where you think that your life is a complete mess? That it's better for you to end you? Because no matter how hard you try, you can't change things. You can't solve problems because it feels like it's never ending.  It's like being trapped in a four wall room with only you and your crazy mind. A four wall room full of mirrors for you to see how you and your life is a complete mess. It's like knowing that your life is falling apart yet still being completely helpless. Being constantly reminded of your flaws, your problems, and the flashbacks of every single bad memories in your head. You know there's a door for you right in front of your face. You can just open and escape but you just simply can't.  Feeling suffocated every time you try to move towards the door. When you try to do a step forward, there will always be things that will pull you two steps backwards.  You can just shout and ask others for help, bu...